Glow up Budget Tips With Jilly from Philly
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She is the definition of softness — not as an aesthetic, but as a way of life. Her voice raised a generation of women. Her presence reminds you to slow down, breathe, and remember who you are.
She doesn’t chase moments. She chooses them. She floats above urgency. And somehow, every year, she looks more radiant than the last.
Her concert at the Brixton Academy in London on November 30, 2011 remains the best concert I have ever attended. I will never forget seeing her live. She doesn’t perform for the room — she transforms it.
She lifts women back into themselves. She has always reminded us to “live my life like it’s golden.”
“You Got Me” with The Roots — that intro alone? My Lord.
If you grew up on soul, freedom music, or self-love anthems — you already know.
She is about to release a new album, To Whom This May Concern, on February 14th.
A date reserved for love — not the performative kind, but the kind that builds, heals, and lasts. Music for those who chose themselves and stayed. This one was never going to be missed. It is already waiting for me.
This article is about the one and only… MISS JILL SCOTT.
Credits: Jill Scott | photo by Paras Griffin / Getty Images
Miss Jill Scott: “This is my Budget Mantra”
“So… How Do You Do Your Budget?”
I remember exactly where I was when I bought her first album, Who Is Jill Scott?
Paris. At my auntie’s house, where I stayed for two weeks after traveling from Guadeloupe. I was 19 years old, preparing for the highly competitive entry exams to enter chartered accountant schools.
That is when Jill Scott entered my world.
Through her music, I was introduced to soul — neo-soul, freedom music. Music that does not pull you away from ambition but teaches you how to breathe while building.
So somewhere between memory and admiration, I find myself asking the same question I ask every woman who moves like this:
How does she manage her life so freely?
And more precisely:
How does she think about money?
“How Do You Choose When to Work?”
Recently, during her interview with Angie Martinez on the “Angie Martinez In Real Life” podcast, Jill Scott calmly explained what each track on the album truly means.
No rush. No pressure. No proving.
That level of clarity does not come from talent alone.
It comes from choice.
And choice requires structure.
To be able to speak with that calm…
To release music when she wants…
To work without fear or urgency…
You need financial freedom.
“What Did You Put in Place to Live This Way?”
This is the part people often overlook.
In December 2025, Jill Scott spoke openly about financial loss on the “Million Dollaz Worth of Game” podcast, hosted by Gillie Da King and Wallo267.
She did not romanticize it. She said she had lost more money than most people will ever make — multiple times.
Those losses were not abstract. They were deeply personal. They were tied to life choices, love, trust — and two divorces.
Not failure. Experience.
She spoke about how love, generosity, and lack of protection can quietly drain even the most successful woman. How money disappears not in one moment, but slowly — through decisions made with the heart instead of structure.
That reckoning changed everything. It forced boundaries where there were none. It demanded clarity where there was trust without safeguards. It taught her that softness must be protected.
The freedom we see today was built after the fall. The calm was rebuilt with intention. The softness is now supported by systems.
“What’s Your Relationship with Work?”
One quote from Jill Scott is currently going viral — and it explains everything:
“You work hard in your 20s.
You work smart in your 30s.
You work how you want to work in your 40s.
You work when you want to work in your 50s.
And you work if you want to work in your 60s.
That came early.
And that’s the way I’m planning my life.”
That wisdom did not come early by luck.
It came from loss, rebuilding, and deciding that survival would never again dictate her schedule.
“How Do You Define a Rich Life?”
Saying I am a die-hard Jill Scott fan is an understatement. Her song “He Loves Me” was the opening song at my wedding.
Looking at her today reminds me why self-care is non-negotiable. She is glowing. Somehow, she looks younger every year. Because peace compounds when your life is aligned.
Jill Scott shows us that softness is not the opposite of power. It is the result of it.
“Pressha”, Comparison, and Letting Go
This article was written after my morning drive, “Pressha” playing through the speakers.
That song is not just about stress. It is about comparison. About trying to look like others. About measuring yourself against lives you don’t fully see.
“Pressha” is a reminder to stop chasing what is not yours. To stop being envious. To stop performing.
Because comparison creates financial pressure. And pressure leads to poor decisions.
Freedom begins when you decide to live your life, not someone else’s highlight reel.
Jill Scott’s Budget Mantra
Soft life does not happen by accident. It is built — and protected.
Inspired by her life, her losses, and her rebuild:
Money is a tool for choice, not control.
Structure creates softness.
Protect yourself — even when you love deeply.
Financial clarity preserves creative freedom.
Do not compare. Envy creates pressure.
You can always rebuild after financial hardship.
To live above urgency…
To create from pleasure instead of survival…
To glow the way she does…
You do not just need talent.
You need boundaries. You need clarity. You need a plan.
And Jill Scott’s life is proof that even after loss — softness, freedom, and abundance can be rebuilt.
A budget without purpose is just a list of expenses. A purpose-driven budget becomes a roadmap shaped by family, work, relationships, and the systems we live within. Continue exploring our articles on ecosystem below:
Start Budgeting With Purpose — Free Tools Available Now
Budgeting with Purpose is about more than tracking expenses. It helps you understand your financial reality, identify blind spots, and build long-term clarity.
Two free tools are now available to help you get started:
Free Budget Tracker
The AfroBudgetinGirl Budget Tracker helps you see your money clearly, plan monthly or yearly, track irregular expenses, and prioritise actions using the Action Priority Matrix.
200 Questions Workbook Extract (Free)
Some financial risks don’t appear in spreadsheets. This workbook extract helps you uncover blind spots, understand what’s driving your decisions, and map those insights into numbers using your budget.
The Money Design Session (Coming Together)
These tools introduce the Money Design Session — a practical way to map your financial ecosystem, identify patterns, and strengthen your foundation with intention.
Here’s what to do:
List every part of your financial environment — from family and work to culture and media.
Analyse how each one influences your mindset, habits, and goals.
Identify patterns and blind spots.
Strengthen your foundation by aligning your money with your true objectives.
This is how budgeting becomes a tool for direction — not restriction.
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Through real experiences and true lessons, I help you question, plan, and protect your financial journey.
Budgeting with purpose transforms your money into a tool for independence and peace. It gives you the power to say “yes” to what matters — and the courage to say “no” to what doesn’t.
Because when we plan with purpose, we don’t just survive life’s challenges — we thrive through them.
